Matched with two women who both seemed pretty interesting and shared a lot of similar hobbies/values. First one we talked for essentially the whole day, both of us matching each other's energy pretty well and keeping a solid convo going, and by the end of the day she was comfortable with exchanging contact details. Then just never heard from her again. Oh well, unlucky.
2nd one messaged me first (!!!) after matching my like at like 2 am or something (and she was referencing something pretty deep in my profile so she had to scroll all the way to see it), so I reached out the next day to continue off what she messaged cause I was already asleep and just never heard from her again.
Like I get that there's going to be other guys that are way better than me as an option, I've put in a ton of effort over the years to try and mitigate my shortcomings and just accept the ones that I cant fix. I think my work has definitely been worth it since I actually have been getting pretty consistent matches lately but like just tell me youre not interested, we're all adults here.