So this is wild, I (24F) never thought this would happen to me – I live in an apartment and I remember always bumping into my neighbour and not thinking much about it. But out of nowhere one day he put a sticky note on my car and gave me his number and told me to call him.
Firstly, I was so flabbergasted. I didn’t know how he found out which car belonged to me and secondly I found it so flattering because it’s RARE AF to be hit on in real life nowadays with all the dating app nonsense. I messaged him and turns out he was the guy whom I’ve been bumping into
We went out on a date yesterday and he confessed that he’s been clocking me since April when he saw me outside the building getting my clothes dry cleaned and he told me I’ve been on his mind since. Then he found out I lived in the same building and wanted to ask me out but never bumped into me again.
Is this normal, cute and flirty? Or is this giving Joe Goldberg stalker level vibes? 😭 I genuinely need some advice! He wants to see me again and he’s been respectful ( asking if he can kiss or hold my hand – I said no LOL) and he’s made it clear he wants to pursue me….
TLDR: My neighbour clocked me , we ran into each other a couple times, he put a sticky note on my car to ask me out which is giving pre dating app era vibes, and I don’t know if he’s just trying to smash or he’s actively looking to pursue me.