Hello all. I had a situationship over my place this weekend and we had a lot of drinks (way too much for me). I was quite drunk and when we got to sex later at night i just couldn't stay hard when she was ready for me.
Despite me being drunk this is a common issue I have had sober as well. I can get hard when masturbating no problem, or sometimes even thinking about sex when I am in the mood. But right before the most important time to get hard… i cant.
It is massively frustrating to me as a very sex positive and communicative person. Why is this happening to me? Is it nerves? How can I get over this?
A lot of times a blowjob before will help me get hard but i hate to ask that every time before we are ready for penetration. And being hard from the blowjob can only last so long too.
Any advice for me? I am getting decent sleep and working out constantly and my eating habits are getting better.