i’m sorry i have to post this but also not sure what to do.
my bf (28m) and i (26f) have been together for nearly 2 years, living together for 1 year. when we first met, everything seemed good, he never said anything always made comments like “your so tight” etc etc. recently, he was stupid drunk and told me that he would rather have anal or me just give him head since my vag gets so wet it is like an ocean and he doesn’t find me tight enough. he then said he has been lying to me forever and didn’t know how to tell me but apparently after sex drunk was a great idea. i know i can do exercises and stretching to tighten but i don’t know also how to recover. i dont want to touch him sexually or anything anymore. i truly love him but the idea of sex with him now repulses me. i told him our options are we 1 – quit dating 2 – open our relationship (for him only) 3 – stay together but just don’t have sex
he already has a kid from another girl and he cheated on me with her within our first few months. i particularly think that i was stupid for thinking that he could ever love me and i honestly feel like im not worthy anymore.
recommendations on how to move on?