i genuinely do not know why my body feels like this and it makes me think that i’m weird as fuck. when my boyfriend and i were first having sex, he’d always pull out. i’m not saying that the sex isn’t satisfying or doesn’t sexually fulfil me, it is and i love our sex life. when he finishes, he’s tired and satisfied, meaning he doesn’t want to go more rounds or he won’t want to have sex later. but i feel as though i could go more rounds and get really turned on, wet and horny when he does small things like grabbing my butt, my boobs, etc. i am the more sexual one in the relationship and have a higher sex drive than him.

now that i’m on birth control, i let him finish inside of me. not to worry! i suggested it as the idea of him finishing inside of me was arousing. whenever he finishes inside of me, i feel so fulfilled, like i’m content and full. but i feel way more drained than i used to be when he would pull out. i also wouldn’t be turned on later and feel as though i’m done with sex for the day, like i’m complete?… why is this the case? i literally feel as if it’s just a me thing and that i’m so fucking weird.


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    i genuinely do not know why my body feels like this and it makes me think that i’m weird as fuck. when my boyfriend and i were first having sex, he’d always pull out. i’m not saying that the sex isn’t satisfying or doesn’t sexually fulfil me, it is and i love our sex life. when he finishes, he’s tired and satisfied, meaning he doesn’t want to go more rounds or he won’t want to have sex later. but i feel as though i could go more rounds and get really turned on, wet and horny when he does small things like grabbing my butt, my boobs, etc. i am the more sexual one in the relationship and have a higher sex drive than him.

    now that i’m on birth control, i let him finish inside of me. not to worry! i suggested it as the idea of him finishing inside of me was arousing. whenever he finishes inside of me, i feel so fulfilled, like i’m content and full. but i feel way more drained than i used to be when he would pull out. i also wouldn’t be turned on later and feel as though i’m done with sex for the day, like i’m complete?… why is this the case? i literally feel as if it’s just a me thing and that i’m so fucking weird.

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  3. It’s because you have a biological drive to become a mother. So it makes sense what you are describing. Alot of people would probably feel the same about this. It feels hot cause from an evolutionary perspective. You want to reproduce. Hence you enjoy when he finishes inside. Nothing strange at all. Some even call it a breeding kink

  4. Women derive pleasure from having a man cum inside them. It’s a mild, happy feeling. Most likely an oxytocin release occurs. Completely normal and natural.

  5. I mean birth control isn’t fool proof so if you’re going full on with nutting inside you at 18 years old please make sure to have the convo about what yall are gonna do with a pregnancy

  6. Not weird at all, it’s a mix of biology and psychology. Finishing inside can trigger a “complete” feeling from hormones and your own kink brain loving the intimacy. Totally normal if that’s what does it for you

  7. I feel most satisfied when my boyfriend cums inside me, even though I have already had several orgasms. My sex drive is higher if we finish with a blow job instead. It’s a biological thing for women due to the body thinking the act could result in pregnancy.

    The only thing is…birth control isn’t 100% effective so you need to be really careful when taking the pill especially. I don’t use birth control now as my partner has had a vasectomy but I was caught out by an expired implant during Covid when I was with my ex. I ended up having a very early miscarriage but it was still something that could have been avoided. So if you have an implant for example you always need to get it replaced on time. The pill needs to be taken consistently the same time every single day. You’re very young so please be extra careful.

  8. Very normal! I love the feeling too, our bodies innately want to reproduce so it makes sense that you feel that way. My only advice is to make sure your birth control situation is sorted. If you’re on the pill you need to be really good at taking it at the same time each day. Long acting methods like the IUD or the implant are less work and more effective.

  11. I used to feel the same way with my ex. When he would pull out I always felt like something was missing and I’d still be turned on later in the day. Once we started letting him finish inside me it gave me this weird sense of closeness and being complete, like my body could finally relax. I think part of it is just the intimacy of it and part of it is how your body reacts after. You’re definitely not weird for feeling that way.

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