Asking for honest answer from the men in this group. What really made you cheat on your partner? Is it because the other person is younger? More attractive? Or is it because they serve as a change from your routine because you are with your wife for so long? I also know some men like to have more, not less. They have a girlfriend but still do not want to divorce their wife because they can compartmentalize their feeling for each person (how often does it happen for men though?)