I don't really know where to start. I'm a girl for context. I've had penetrative sex like a few times and I always have the same problem. I don't feel like I really do anything? I think I default to being more submissive, that's kinda what my partners have told me, and I do like giving the guy control but it's like I'm not pulling my weight. I mean it feels great for me and guys never complain either but I feel bad letting them do all the work.
Am I overthinking it, am I doing fine? If not how do I do more than just laying down and taking it?