Things we just never talked about

I’ve been married 27 years. My wife and I have had serious conversations on many topics. We’ve also had many different disagreements. When I read many of these posts, I find it interesting that a lot of concerns raised on these posts were things we didn’t even discuss. Things just dialed in the way they did.

Here are a few examples.

1. Since we married, neither of us ever had opposite sex friends.

2. We never had cell phone issues. We literally use each other phones if one’s charged or one’s closer by. Never had issues with passwords or whatever.

3. We never discussed when to communicate big expenditures or set rules on dollar amounts. We just told each other.

4. We never discussed split finances. We combined when married. I guess we just assumed that’s what married people did.

I just find it interesting that things that can be huge challenges for some couples aren’t even discussed by other couples.

That’s all.