This isn’t a successful dating story but it’s a successful mindset.
Recently I found someone that I thought was my person. Many things happened, we decided to take some space and I’m not sure if I’ll ever really see him again. Instead of being sad about the potential loss of what could’ve been, the anxiety of what the future holds, I remember that I was okay before him and I’ll be okay after him.
I want you all to remember that although we may feel lost, or sad, while dating we need to choose ourselves first at the end of the day. The right people will feel right and come at the right time for us.
Today, I’ve let go of that sadness, the anxiety and remembered that we need to choose happiness in life, happiness in memories, happiness in friends and family, happiness in opportunities. I hope this helps people who were in my similar situation. Remember pain is inevitable, but continuing to suffer is a choice.