Okay, so here’s the deal: I’m definitely the “predictable” type when it comes to dating. I plan dates in advance, I don’t “wing it,” I pick the same coffee shop way too often, and yes I’m guilty of ordering the same food at restaurants every single time. A friend recently joked that I’m basically a “human routine,” and now I’m questioning if that’s hurting me. On one hand, being consistent feels like a good thing at least I won’t randomly ghost anyone. On the other hand, maybe I’m not mysterious enough. Do people really find predictability boring, or is it secretly comforting?