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I’m completely smitten by a girl. Can’t really tell if it’s mutual and now I may not see her for awhile. Struggling on the right way to proceed. Feel like I should reach out to our mutual (also a girl and am admittedly not super close with her) just to get some kind of gauge
I’m (30F) currently in a weird limbo stage with a person (30sM) who was my friend and developed feelings. We are LDR but usually communicate well and FaceTime and everything. We’ve been planning to meet soon. Well, he’s gone completely MIA after seeing someone from his more recent past; apparently he doesn’t miss her but it just made him uncomfortable. But now? I get the silence and I’m trying to respect a desire for wanting space to process. But, I’m really upset and frustrated from another MIA-with-no-warning stint, also because he’s still actively following her when he pursued me. Hoping he’ll reach back out soon but I’m trying to detach and protect myself. Any advice appreciated