Something keeps happening where I attract men who aren't interested in a relationship, but want all the relationship benefits. The main thing being my time and attention. I know this is really on me, and I'm trying to dig deep to figure out why I'm so appealing to these types. In the meantime, however, it's really annoying.
For example: the last guy I was talking acted like he didn't really like me like that, and I took him at his word and didn't take him as more than a text here or phone call there. He became hyper-fixated on me, accused me of being with someone else and would do the most to try to get my attention. I ended up blocking him, because it actually got a little scary after a while.
Currently another guy is constantly texting me (literally everyday starting at like 7am, I am NOT a morning person), asking what I'm doing and trying to spend all this time with me. Meanwhile we both made it clear from day one that neither of us was looking for more than maybe a FWB situation. He stressed that he was not looking for a girlfriend and I was fine with that. Yet somehow he can't let me breathe.
These are just two examples of this happening to me throughout my life. Non-committal men who are also clingy and want all of my attention. I don't get it. It's not that I don't want something serious one day, I absolutely do, marriage even. But when you know, you know… you know? And when a man tells me from jump that he does't want a relationship with me, I believe him and I move on or decide if I want to temporarily take what he has to offer.
Anyway. I'm just curious about your guys' insight on this. Especially the perspective of men who date women. Have you done this to women? If so, what kind of vibe is she sending out to make you like this? I need to know wha I'm doing to instigate this.