Hi my friend 21f married her husband 26m when he was in the US on a visa from ITALY and they met and decided to get married. They lived together for a while and at first he was super nice to her but overtime he started getting more and more demanding. He would blow up her phone if we went to see and movie he would call and ask her why she didn’t answer when he knew beforehand we went to see a movie and he had her location. One time they got into and altercation where he started hitting the bed and saying he could be hitting her but he chooses not to, and instead hit the bed and that he could be hitting her and she took that as her sign to leave him after several prior similar situations to this. She left him and he started threatening her saying he was going to show up her her job started blowing up her family’s phones saying intimate things she wanted to keep private from her family. he did several outlandish things when she left him. After threating her he took all the money from their savings going around and about and she was left with nothing. Apparently she followed him again on instagram recently, and they’ve been in contact since then. She just told me this morning that because of the language barrier he didn’t know that she had a miscarriage and is taking this as a reason why she should visit him in another county(germany) as he’s back in italy and can’t come back to the US. Apparently he told her he’s moving to germany and that she should go an move in with him in germany. But i don’t feel comfortable taking her to the airport to see him after everything he put her through. I think she was looking for a reason to forgive him and took him not understanding she had a miscarriage as a reason to forgive him. She wants to at least visit him in germany for a week but i dont know is there anything in germany that would put her at a disadvantage, where he has the potential to do something? (besides hide her documents)