Hey so I’m a women and I’m virgin waiting until marriage . I’m with a guy and he says when we get married he would like to practice oral sex with me. Sadly, I have a lot of panic from contamination and germs , and I noticed that he gets cold sores time to time .
I told him I don’t want to do oral sex because I don’t like it , but in reality it’s because I’m super afraid that he infects me with cold sores on my vagina or even other infections like yeast infections or utis.
Has anyone had the same issue ? If so , how did you overcome it ?