Hello all,
I need advice on what the title suggests.
I have a date planned with this girl I met on Hinge (F28) a few days ago. I’m currently on a 2 week vacation and we plan to meet up for the first time/have coffee once I return.
She and I have a TON in common, and she’s super sweet, smart, caring, communicates well, etc.
Neither of us are looking to jump straight into a relationship right away, we want to see how we like each other’s company first, then let a relationship develop naturally.
My ex and I broke up almost 4-5 months ago, and we have been nothing but roommates since the breakup. She was supposed to move out way earlier, but she recently has been recovering from ankle surgery, after breaking it, so she’s been in an ankle/knee scooter for almost 2 months now.
She’s informed me that 1) She’s already found a new place, 2) The only reason she hasn’t fully moved out of my house is that she doesn’t feel 100% physically comfortable yet, living alone given her ankle.
Once she’s in a walking boot at the start of October, then she’ll fully move out.
I have ZERO intention of staying friends with her, once she moves out. I am 100% only a roommate to her now, she has her own room in the house, etc.
How do I inform my new date of my current less than desirable living arrangement, I don’t want to lie/hide this from her, but I also don’t want this info to torpedo us getting to know one another?