I m 20 M and my gf 19F . We are in relationship for nearly 9 months . We have met irl 3-4 times but now she lives in italy and i m in london . At starting we both were sexually attracted to each other and had alot of those talks but lately when i try to make a joke about sex or start something like sex related she often gets irritated and avoid the conversation. She says its because we could not do it because we are in long distance but idk whats the reason. Maybe its because of my ex gf . Please advice what should i do
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I m 20 M and my gf 19F . We are in relationship for nearly 9 months . We have met irl 3-4 times but now she lives in italy and i m in london . At starting we both were sexually attracted to each other and had alot of those talks but lately when i try to make a joke about sex or start something like sex related she often gets irritated and avoid the conversation. She says its because we could not do it because we are in long distance but idk whats the reason. Maybe its because of my ex gf . Please advice what should i do
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Both of you are still young. How long are you planning on being long distance? It’s going to be really hard to maintain a relationship like that for any considerable length of time. Take a look at what you are wanting out of your relationship with her, you are probably naturally growing apart due to distance and lack of ability to be around each other more.
We all been there in our youth, long distance relationsships. They almost never work out. Especially in that age because so much is happening and so many new people are met all the time. Unless the distance thing is very specific framed, like coming 3 months and then it’s over. You would probably be better of breaking up and maybe get back together again in the future when it might be more convenient.