recently started seeing a new person and it was obvious that he’s inexperienced. i was surprised given that we’re both almost 30, so i thought we’d be more experienced by now. he seemed nervous? frazzled doing too many things but not enough of anything? i was trying to guide him, but he was so “into his zone” and i was just confused and let him finish and done lol. how can i help improve our sex life without being condescending about it 😭 i really like him but the sex was so disappointing i was shocked