So, me and the girl im dating got along really well at first, but she grinned on a guy till he came, WHILE SHE WAS DATING ME. So then I said 2 make it poly so she'd be happy, but when I brought anyone in she got jealous instantly. She sends me memes and reels when im at work but gets mad when I send her them when she's out. And she actively is ok with one of her guy friends flirting with her when the relationship isn't poly anymore. She says she didnt want the hickeys from him but actively hangs out with him. I've told her I love her and it has been taking longer 4 her to respond. And literally just me asking if she's mad at me makes her not talk 2 me for atleast most of the day. When we are on call, which is barely ever now, she ignores me most of the time. I posted something like this on Instagram, and rather than talk she told me to leave her. Wtf should I do? Bc I do care about her, but im at a loss here. And i got told last night that theres ALOT of red flags…