My boyfriend and I are both 22 and have been together for almost 10 months. He’s been gone for almost two weeks and I’ll be picking him up on Friday.
We haven’t had sex in the last three ish or so weeks due to doctors orders for 8 days and then him being gone. However before this we would have sex everyday multiple times a day or at least every other day. We both have really high sex drives.
We are also both really open when it comes to sex and have talked and tried most things that we are into together. I’ve always thought anal was gross (still do, def not my thing) and never wanted to try it. My ex asked a couple times and I said fuck no but my bf asked once and I was like “why not.” That’s the kinda relationship we have.
He wants one thing which I’d love to be able to do but every time we try it I can’t take myself serious and end up laughing which just takes away the mood because then he starts laughing.
He wants me to be more dominant in a BDSM Mommy kinda way. Which is hot and I’m totally down but it just doesn’t come natural to me and the words sound forced and silly when I say them. Like I’m playing a role. Thank god he doesn’t want this all the time and only asks for it once in a while since he likes being in charge (which is what I prefer as well) but I want to surprise him and be able to do it very well. Do you guys have any tips?