Hey, I’m a 22M who recently started speaking to a 32F, gonna hang out with her at her place soon. I mentioned my fantasy of being photographed naked to which she stated that she would love to do that for me. For context I would take more of a sub role with her. It sounds hot to me but I’m unsure if I would regret it, as those photos could be used against me in some way in the future. She seems really kind so far, am I being paranoid?


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  2. Define ‘bad’. I can only assume bad potential outcomes.

    1. Photos live forever. She would have possession of those intimate pictures.
    2. Sub role. Is this a hook up and fling? Are you wanting a relationship? Are you a sub or a switch? What are your concerns here.

  3. Have her use your phone fur the images and not hers.

    Being a submissive doesn’t mean that you should allow someone you don’t know have photos of you.

  4. you shouldn’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. perhaps build that trust a little more beforehand?

  5. Don’t do that…you just started talking to her. Give it a few months to make sure she’s not crazy or vindictive, I can’t tell you how many people seem nice at first and then slowly reveal themselves. 

    You simply don’t know her well enough to trust her with that yet. The fact that’s she’s 32 dating a 22M and is open to you taking a sub role could mean she’s not as stable as you think. Nearly all women I know in their 30’s wouldn’t go for that. 

  6. I’d play with her a couple times first. Build some trust before going all in. And if you do the photo play, set your phone up so she can take pics but can’t send/open your phone up without your passcode.

  7. Get her to make the pictures on a device of you, so that when you leave after, you have the pictures and she doesn’t.

    And if you do wanna send her some of them, thats up to you and a risk assessment you can make.

    But this way you’d be in control over the footage

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