Just wondering what could of been going down. Both mature adults.
We met for 2 days. Both travelled a fair distance. First impressions were both wow absolutely lived up to all excitement. We had a lovely 2 days together. Held hands did lots of nice stuff together, kissed regularly, exchanged messages when we left.
Then I'm not sure why but i asked if he felt a connection and he avoided the question. He treat me like i was being too much. I asked in a kind and light way i wasn't being all serious.
I was a bit p'd off he didn't acknowledge my question, it made me feel a bit used. He sensed i was off about something and he asked so i told him. He said i was being critical of him and wouldn't allow it to drop. Then tapered off all communication.
We spend 2 solid months building up to our date. I was so excited. He told me frequently he was dating for love. Never once gave me a sign he was being misleading.
I'm lost as to what to think.
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You didn’t do anything wrong. His reaction is definitely cause for concern.
Are you sure he isn’t already married?
Im sorry girl. /: that sucks. He sounds avoidant.
I’m really sorry to hear this OP 🥹 He sounds a bit like an avoidant.
This seems to be one sided, however seems basic, you met, he didnt feel the connection once meeting, you pushed on something he wasnt happy with, so ghosted which is the normal coarse of action now-a-days, you had a nice time out on the date and 2 months before, take that and move forward on to the next one.
Honestly when things fall apart it’s a blessing in disguise. You are now one step closer to finding someone who’s your person congratulations!!!