Im (M31) currently having flirty chats with this girl. (30F). Last time we met she called me to her house to have some beers at 2 am, I had nothing else to do and I was awake so I went there. I didnt tried anything because she was drunk AF although she tried to kiss me.
Know the chat has turned way more flirty and sexually tense and she challenged me to do something about it so and ask her to get together so I have invited her to my house this week, I can tell from the chats shes not looking for a beer drinking buddy.
I find her hot and shes also a fun person but I really dont want a relationship right know and I also dont want to be a douche.
If the meeting feels sexually tense should I have sex with her and see what happens or should I break that tension and kill the vibe and tell her I only want sex? I prefer the second option but Ive heard from girls that only want sex but that kind of talks kill the mood.