My husband and I are 50 —married over 30 years. We fantasize about having a threesome (adding a female) I am worried it might change things and also afraid of being blackmailed. In a perfect world I would love to have that experience but either my husband would be come obsessed and want to have a threesome all the time where I would just want to do it once or once a year, and now we have something fun to talk about that’s just for us.
I asked him if he is really serious we could go to Las Vegas $$$ and pay for a service no strings attached but I would want two women to make me feel more comfortable and not get jealous. I also might chicken out. I also thought maybe I can look into buying a sex doll and then we can fantasize but do couples even do that or would it be too weird to try. We married young and are simple people but wanted to know if other couples talk about this what have you tried and if the sex doll is just too morbid to bring up.