Y’all ever see responses like this to posts where a guy is voicing his struggles with dating, even when they’re not being hostile in their post?
Not saying personality doesn’t matter at all but it’s funny how this is the low blow assumption some people come to without actually knowing you personally especially when you consider how many down right evil people in this world still have zero issues landing dates, relationships, even having fucking wives and a family.
If having a “bad personality” was the ultimate factor you know how many people in this world would be alone? Sure, some people hide it better than others, but MANY wear it on their sleeves and still thrive in the dating scene. Toxic people that still have their partners still coming back to THEM no matter how badly they treat them, how much they cheat, degrade them, shit blows my mind but we wanna gaslight people into thinking they can’t find dates because “they’re personality is probably bad”, tf?
Again, I think people should strive to have good personalities in general, but its just funny to me how this is the hill some people die on with how many examples of this in real life contradict this shit.