I've been to a few stags in the UK, primarily around Manchester but I get the feeling that there's a general consensus that hen-dos are more welcomed than stags around major cities. Am I crazy for noticing this? I want to point out the the groups I've been out with are all mild-mannered nerds, not a load of stocky ne'er-do-wells in full designer kit. I know there's a general behaviour from lads that tends to be more aggressive and macho but it alienates people who have no intentions like that.