I have been married to my husband for a year. He has aspergers, which I knew before we got married. But I didn't realise how bad he struggles with his emotions before marriage, especially since he masked before we got married.
I've had to pick up the pieces and help him with self-regulation and communication and etc. But I just feel drained. He's improved, which is great but I feel soo tired.
Not only that I feel like I've lost myself, I used to like going museums and national parks and just having my interest but because I've been soo preoccupied with him, i feel like I don't have time for myself