My (44) husband (45) and I have been married 20 years yesterday. We didn’t have a wedding as I was pregnant and needed health insurance, so we got quickly married at the court house. I thought in honor of our 20th anniversary, we could renew our vows. My husband is very opposed to this, saying if I didn’t mean my vows when I originally said them, why he should he believe I mean them now. I thought it was something romantic and sweet – to say that I would still 100% choose this path with you, but he has turned it into a very negative idea.