So, there is this thing called "plicoma", Which is extra skin that grows flacid in your hole, basically, because of some derived problem (hemorrhoids, constipation, etc.)
Is this an actual problem for men? Or just those who are really picky about the smallest details? I've always been insecure about this. Im talking about specifically Men here because i dont sleep with women. I have never interacted sexually with anyone because of this detail, I feel like it would be a huge immediate turn off and the person would feel disgusted and laugh at me.
When I was a child I had constipation, to the point where I needed to go to the hospital for a bowel cleanse, I believe this caused plicomas in me. They're definitely not inconspicuous, they're not gigantic, painful, bleeding, or anything, and I always sanitize as much as I can.
At the same time, I know it's not a serious problem like a disease, so there are definitely people who don't care, but everything that involves aesthetics, especially things that most people probably don't have, and if they do, it's imperceptible or they barely know it exists, generates a type of insecurity worse than "Oh, I have stretch marks", Because you're left wondering if the person is going to be disgusted by you, and you're going to have to explain "No, that's not an STD, I'm a virgin" and even then that person might feel disgusted and that would honestly kill sex to me. At least for the next few years.
I intend to remove it as soon as possible but at the moment it is financially impossible for me. I'd like to discuss this, and hear from people who have it too and what their experience is like with other people. Im a woman.