I recently started dating someone, and we have been discussing the topic of having sex.
I suggested that he comes over to my place due to some legitimate factors on his side, and he seemed hesitant. I questioned his hesitancy, and he opened up to me and told me that he doesn’t want to have sex in the same bed that me and my ex had sex in.
I understand where he is coming from, but this seems a bit unreasonable to me. He also has a sexual history, although they didn’t sleep in his or her bed together.
I don’t really know how to approach this situation; should I just get over it, or is this a legitimate concern?
Edit: He is 19M, I’m 18F
UPDATE: I briefly spoke to him about this, and we will speak further on the issue when we see each other again.
However, it has been cleared up that he is NOT opposed to the idea, but simply wants our FIRST time to be somewhere new and memorable, otherwise not tied to any past memories or experiences.
He is a romantic and somewhat sentimental person, so this would make sense.