So I've always had a problem with getting wet. I never seem to get wet even when I'm super aroused or have a ton of foreplay or whatever. I can feel the horninest I've ever felt in my life but when the underwear comes off I'm practically bone dry and it sucks. So I've been trying lube but it doesn't feel like it does much either. It's okay in the beginning but after just a few minutes it feels like I'm just trying to shove something into myself and it feels uncomfortable and sometimes painful. Ive tried gel based and water based lube and I've even mixed them, Ive used a lot a little, but nothing works. Is it more an issue with me just being too tense? Penetration has always just been an "okay" feeling to me but I desperately want to like it more. I'm a virgin and me and my boyfriend wanna go all the way but I don't wanna feel uncomfortable the whole time when we do. Is this like a medical thing? Is there something I can do to fix this? Any lube recommendations? I'm on birth control but I've been like this even before then for basically as long as I can remember.