I always put a lot of effort into making sure my girlfriend reaches orgasm, and she usually does every single time. I genuinely enjoy giving her pleasure — it makes me happy to see her satisfied, and I take pride in that. The issue is that once she climaxes, she often stops and doesn’t seem very interested in making sure I finish as well. I don’t mind focusing on her, but when I’m left hanging it makes sex feel incomplete and a bit one-sided. We’ve talked about this before, but she doesn’t seem motivated to change or try different ways to help me. I’m starting to feel frustrated and unimportant, even though I love her and enjoy being intimate. Why might she act this way, and how should I handle the situation without making her feel pressured?
TL;DR: I love pleasing my girlfriend and she always orgasms, but she rarely tries to help me finish, which makes sex feel one-sided. Not sure how to deal with it.