My husband & I have a 5 year old daughter & an infant son. He was born just before summer & our daughter just started kindergarten. We all have had a lot of big changes. I never thought these changes would effect us too. We are tired all the time & when we have time to spend together when the kids are asleep we mostly just watch a little TV. By the time we go to bed we are exhausted & don't have time for intimacy. My libedo was so high when I was pregnant & right after pregnancy. It's still a little high & I really want the connection with him but I feel like he is too tired. I feel so upset because I really miss him in that way but I don't want to put more pressure on him. He already has a lot of paternal anxiety & I don't want to make it worse. How can we make time for intimacy if we are both so tired & overwhelmed? If anyone else has felt this way what did you do to help it?