We got married in September and January 2024, I accepted to relocate to her country abroad.
After 7 months she cheated on me and about two days later she was getting angry and yelling at me for being silent most of the day, at that point I lost it and asked to leave, unfortunately I couldn't leave as I was broke. So I stayed, even though we continued my trust for her was gone.
Fast forward to a couple of days ago, I had to sit her down and ask what's really going on as she's been destructed on her phone texting for a couple of weeks so she opened up and told me she's interested in. somebody else and her love for me has faded. That hurt a little but I'm kind of relieved that we're finally going to split as it's been a stressful relationship.

The tricky part is, a few months ago I tore my left ACL and so I have an operation scheduled for January, if I have to operate back in my country it'll be extremely expensive, while I get that done for free in her country. So she's allowed me to stay till the operation and the healing period but it'll definitely be heavy as she's already began dating this other dude while we still live together as she is hiding her bullshit from her family, on top of that she hasn't been talking to her mother for almost a year now.

Overall my stay in her country has been great, I got a film into two regional festivals and won an award, I recently got a well paying job which I'll probably lose after we split but my health and peace of mind come first.

What would you do in my situation?


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