Hello everyone,
I’ve been wondering if it’s something about me, because I’ll match with people and then get ghosted. I know I’m attractive, but it does get discouraging sometimes. If you feel so confident and beautiful, do you ever deal with ghosting too?
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I think I’m like a 7 and I’ve gotten ghosted multiple times
I have been ghosted before. I wouldn’t consider myself a model but I’d like to think I’m above average.
Last year I also got stood up for the first time ever. I had heard of people getting stood up but I’ve never done it to someone or had it done to me before. I always thought of it as a horribly cruel thing to do to another human being. It was a wild experience and I’m still very confused about it to this day. We met each other in person, danced together, and exchanged numbers. We then talked daily, he had been making future plans already, talking about me meeting his friend, he planned this whole picnic and I told him how excited I was, I confirmed the night prior that we were still on for it the next morning, then I wake up the morning of and he had deleted me on everything. I don’t know, maybe he had a girlfriend 😬? R.I.P. Taylor
I am so low i am not ratable (the system said), ive only ever been ghosted. Unless they want money, thats how i know something is off when i am not ghosted.
Yeah I have got ghosted from men tbh. But I guess it’s for a good reason cause men who ghost a beautiful women are toxic and aren’t good for those women.
Yes. Just because you are beautiful, doesn’t mean you are meant for everyone. I know a few women who get told whatever, then used physically for one night of passion, then ghosted after. This is a thing. It sucks.
All the time. Your looks don’t make you bulletproof from ghosting.
But it’s hard to gauge from a dating app and when you haven’t met.
It happens to everyone and usually it has nothing to do with you 🙂 I had a girl friend that once got super offended because someone asked her if someone had ever stood her up and she was like ‘do I look like someone that would get stood up” clearly super annoyed. That day I knew everything I needed about her. I know her dating history and worse things have happened to her… so yeah bottom line ghosting has nothing to do with looks or how good of a catch you are
I’m maybe a 6/7. I get ghosted all the time.
Everyone gets ghosted. It doesn’t have much to do with looks it’s about the other person.
i’ve been ghosted many times. not everyone can deal with the stress and financial demand of a beautiful woman. even rich powerful men will gulp when looking at me (I work with CEOs in professional development). people often choose someone safe rather than the hottest most gorgeous woman out there. a lot of the ceos i work with have plain jane wives, they picked someon safe who doesn’t outshine them. they are used to being the top dog. in fact, i can only think of two i’ve worked with who have a beautiful wives, who are gorgeous and also a ray of sunshine. one is divorced tho. i could talk about this topic for hours…beauty is triggering to people, and they are not always conscious of it.
Oooooh yeah, I totally do. I was ghosted a few weeks ago, then again for a date that was supposed to happen this last Saturday. Their loss, not mine.
Absolutely! And most guys think you’re a scammer or catfish
Yep- and it’s usually right around the point that I hold them to a standard or show I take serious interest in…. Feel used for flirting or an ego boost.
When someone ghosts you, the trash takes itself out. This is a sure mark of emotional immaturity and not a person who anyone, beautiful or not, should want to date.
In my younger years, I was considered very attractive, and I’ve dealt with plenty of ghosting and all the other brands of bullshit. Looking good means you just get more of it, because more people want you, I guess. It doesn’t make you immune from anything at all.
Being ghosted has nothing to do with you, but with person ghosting you
Yes.
Ghosting isn’t about looks. It’s about not wanting to be bothered w someone. Anything can trigger it, neediness, vibe/energy, lack of common interests, emotional baggage. The list is exhausting.
I’m just gonna hold off on sex. Not even on the second date. Lots of guys I’ve been with have ghosted me or unnecessarily have
Girl even supermodels and celebrities get ghosted and cheated on…it has nothing to do with appearance but everything to do with the other person clearly not being a good communicator or respectful.
I know I’m an attractive girl and I’ve gotten ghosted before (or rather slow faded). I’ve seen stunning girls on tiktok who have also gotten ghosted, which tells me it’s less about what I did and more about their inability to communicate.
Yup. We sure do but usually by cowards. No real man actually does this.
Yeah. We get ghosted. Like others have said – ghosting is about them, not you. That said, I think there are appropriate times to ghost – like you haven’t met and the communication just dies… whatever, no big deal. But you go out, presumably have a nice time… maybe multiple times – that’s a little weird and rude to ghost. Just say something, unless you both clearly have a shit time, aren’t matches, and it’s just better left unsaid.
Lol yes babe. We get disrespected, ghosted, cheated on, mistreated, the same as anyone else. Honestly I think maybe even more so. People take one look at me and decide I’m conceited and pretentious before a word has ever fallen from my lips. They will upon meeting me make it a point to be passive aggressive and look for ways to humble me. Just because. I think a lot of people get something from being mean to pretty girls. As much as people talk about pretty privilege, it’s most definitely a double edged sword.