So sleeping in separate bedrooms due to AC differences has mostly occurred. To recap, he needs the AC down to 60 with all the fans blowing and I need more like 68 and no fans because I have allergies and sinus issues (pregnant so no meds to help!!).
I’m on my 3rd sinus infection although I moved the humidifier in the bedroom recently.
Last night, I stayed up to watch TV downstairs and went into the bedroom to find him happily snoozing in 74 degrees. He left a few windows open but no AC on. No fans. He kept a flannel blanket on.
I’m low key kind of enraged because now I feel like his control of the ACs and running up the electricity bill was… for nothing. As I suspected. I brought up: you grew up without AC and we lived in NYC with the hellfire radiator heat on all the time. You’ve slept in warm before!
He refuses to see how his lack of concern for my comfort, especially during the pregnancy, and then to find him in 74 degrees happily snoozing is…. Bewildering. He claims his ADHD makes him a jerk and “can’t think”, but does this explain his inconsistency?
I know I’m not going to win an argument on who was right or wrong.. but I definitely think his “control” of the environment is just bullshit.