I am married from 1.5 years.we met on matrimonial site. After marriage i came throufh lots of probelms related to familys nature behaviour etc like they are very stingy on electricity, food etc.
My mother in laws nature is also irritating. So i angrily fight woth my husband on everyday new topics. I am working also.so there were many issues related to household chores etc. It was tough for me to manage and thats why i always fight with my husband. He tried to solve the things and gradually everything was on track.
But before three months he declared that he made a financial scam in his firms and we have to pay devt of 30 lacs. So my earnings go in all this things. I was shocked for 2 3 days that he lied to me before marriage and i fight with him on this. But i support him afterwards. But his nature is very calm.not interesting in festivals, not excoted, not funny etc etc so i complained him about this all and before one week i had a full day fast of teej and in night when i returned to home after dinner etc he told me 2 3 times about things to put in specific way in room.but i was tired so i had a fight agaun that i am tired and you are telling me to put things on its place etc. He had done this before also 2 e times that put this here and there etc but i dont like it. As i am tired so not in state of doing it. So we fight and next day he told his parents he is not set with me etc etc so from one week i am crying and trying to solve this. But my mither in law is blaming me only for this all. And my husband is also silent. What should i do ? I know my words have hurt him everytime but he told his parents about this i dont like it .