Alt account.
Married 20 years as of yesterday. Marriage is really pretty good. We have sex 1-2x per week. We spent the entire day together yesterday. She’s not the most affectionate, especially compared to me, but we have an otherwise very solid relationship.
Came to bed just after her and she had what I call the TikTok tent going on with her head under the comforter. No she wasn’t sexting or cheating. I had assumed she made no effort to engage during the day meant sex before bed. I slid over and started to kiss her and she said, “Sigh, Ugg, you don’t want to do it do you”?
I rolled back to my spot and said no, not now. The TikTok tent continued and after 5 mins of feeling really bad, I got up and left and went down stairs. No where are you going? No text after a few mins. I don’t think she noticed.
We’re not fighting. Had a really chill day together yesterday. She wasn’t too tired as I saw her post about our anniversary 30 mins after I left. I’m just sitting here wondering WTF happened last night? She came down this morning like nothing happened and even thought I was quieter than normal she just ignored it. Don’t know what to make of this…
More a vent than anything else…