For long term couples that who went from having eh sex/dead bedroom to amazing consistent sex, I want to know what changed to get from point A to point B.
For context my husband and I have been together 10+ years. 2 little kids later and we have some intimacy issues. My husband doesn’t think we have enough sex; I have some issues with feeling forced sometimes/ I don’t want to do it (otherwise I feel like a bad wife / husband gets moody). We have good communication and talk about how to fix this but I feel like we go in circles sometimes. I want to know how other couples “fixed” this issue with somethings other than just talking about it. What actions did you/SO take to improve your sex life.