pretty much what it says on the tin. my partner (has a dick) and i (have a vulva) are really good together. i love them and we fuck relatively often. they always cum, me not as often. i'm bad at vocalising what i want in bed, and unless we're fucking we don't tend to talk about sex much.
anyway, i want them to finger me more, but when they do it's sort of jabby, uneven and unsatisfying, so i ask them to stop. normally they go down on me which i really love sensory-wise but it doesn't make me cum. how do i teach them in a way that doesn't involve too much discussion beforehand? i've tried showing them how i masturbate, but it's difficult to replicate and it doesn't change much.
any ideas? thanks 🙂