So i read alot of times here on reddit “ how hard is for men to be loyal and how you do it”.
And most answers were like “ i dont wanna destroy home, or i dont wanna hurt her etc”.
It makes me a bit sad because everyone replies that they don’t cheat simply because they don’t want to hurt their partner — not because they actually love their wife or find her attractive, etc
So i am confused is it really that hard for men to stay loyal for 10,20+ years? Does who are loyal are you tempted to cheat sometimes?