Hi, I (27) female went through my husband phone (32) male. I found he has a secret instagram where he was flirting with so many women and just in there dm’s. Then I went on to snap chat and found he head texting 2 girls. 1 girl (lets call her jas)just texting her dirty stuff and the other one lets call her (Nancy) actually sending him nudes. I spoke to both and found out that both of them. Jas informed me that it was honestly just harmful flirting and they never did anything just would send messages, but never told her she was married. Now Nancy told me something different she told me she actually slept with him twice in the winter time last year. But here’s the thing I don’t trust Nancy saying that. Because last year on the winter my husband was recovering from a very serious gun shot wounds. He didn’t even have a car. I confronted my husband about this and then obviously kicked him out. He can the next morning to talk. He showed me proof that Nancy was lying about sleeping with him. And after Nancy spoke with me she actually went and message my husband “text me once you officially single”. He informed me that she has always been trying to get his attention. Which honestly I Believe because the message I saw the message of Nancy and it would just be her sending nudes, (he never requested them) and her just being thirsty. Look by all means I’m not defending my husband. He know what he did was bad. He deleted his Snapchat account and instagram account and informed me that it would never happen again. He wants to try to fix things. We have been married 2 years and were dating for 2 years before that. We have been together a total of 4 years and he has never disrespected me or anything like that until now. We have been through a lot of hardships like having a miscarriage. Him getting shot in a drive by that he died and came back to life cause him to be in the hospital for 2 months and was in house for a year just recuperating ( that’s the time Nancy said they had sex) I honestly don’t believe that because during that time he has no motion of his arm and his mom and I would always be with him helping shower, feeding him, taking him to physical therapy ect. I love that man I do and I’m so lost in what to do. A marriage is suppose to be through thick and thin. I guess just want to know if anyone on here has been thought cheating with their significant other and have they actually changed for the good? And how to move past this? It’s been a couple days already since everything and I see he is trying to earn my trust by communicating. What advice can you happy married couples give me? Please be nice I’m not in the best mental state right now