I’ve been dating this guy (32M) for about 4 months. Things are still relatively new and we are compatible in so many other aspects except the bedroom.
I just don’t feel that passionate sexual chemistry with him.
He’s not very experienced, and there is a lack of bedroom chemistry.
The thing is when he touches me, it turns me off instead. (and it takes a lot of effort to push through past it) He isn’t very good with his hands or mouth, and isn’t very good at foreplay. I’ve tried providing some guidance in the past but it doesn’t necessarily get better and it just kills any romantic vibe we were having. (I’m also not very sure on how to provide guidance as this has never happened to me before) based on my past experience, men just knew.
He doesn’t seem to think anything is lacking, but is open to feedback.
Does sexual chemistry improve over time? and how can I get him to be better in foreplay and in bed?