Hi all, 25 M here. Looking for advice on how to meet women organically. So far all the women I've dated have been from the apps and one by chance here on reddit. But these have been very few and far between and lately it's been a complete deadzone, a few matches here or there that lead nowhere. I'm well established in my career field (male dominated), have my own place, have a great circle of friends and plenty of hobbies. Overall I'm very happy with my life and where I'm at, but companionship is something that's important to me. I like going to concerts, hockey games, rock climbing, collecting vinyl records, kayaking, fishing, hiking. But all of the women I see in these places seem to keep to their own group and nor want to be bothered. Went out a few times to bars in the nearby major city/suburbs (all the local bars here are boomers) and same thing. Everyone seems to keep to their own group. I've mustered up the courage to talk to a few women, which has been great for my self-confidence but ultimately they didn't seem interested. Even had a girl who kept smiling and making eye contact, same result. Went to a singles event in said city, it was okay and I was vibing pretty good with one girl but she said no when I asked for her number. I'm no model but I'd say I'm decent looking, physically fit, I'm confident in myself and really outgoing/friendly. I'm just really at a loss here. People suggest MeetUp but all the groups around here are old people. Does anybody have any ideas?


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