My wife has been gaslighting me for a while now. I had done some things that weren’t really great no cheating or anything like that but I did lie to her.
I’ve admitted it again and apologized over and over. I was using her iPad one day as my phone was charging and saw some history etc.
She was absolutely livid told me do not ever look at her phone iPad etc ever. That was a big red flag 🚩 Never before have either of us hid phones or anything like that and all of a sudden she’s extremely protective of me seeing it. I can only think of one reason why. Is there something I am missing here?
She filed for divorce and of course wants a bunch of money because she does. I’m lost and confused about all of it. She just brings up the one thing I did over and over again. I always say yes I did that it was dumb and I am sorry.
I think she is just trying to shame me because of the stuff she has done and not admitted. She brings up honesty and trust and says she can’t trust me. I think she says that because she’s not trustworthy. I have been open about everything and have said repeatedly to her ask me whatever you want I will tell you the entire truth even if it hurts me to do so. Constantly shifts subject back to me anytime I ask anything. Why ? How do I get through to her that I just want to know the truth. That’s literally all I want. I won’t hold it against her or use it as a weapon. But nope I get bs, gaslighting, shifting blame. Any suggestions I’m all ears
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