Hey all, I am looking for some advice/solutions on how to approach things between me and my husband, and also just a little bit of room to vent.
He has a habit of saying he’ll do things, but doesn’t actually execute them. It’s things all the way from planning a date, doing things for my birthday, and just romantic gestures he promises to just taking care of himself and doing things around the house. It’s getting exhausting and lot of the time I feel like if I don’t do it or I don’t say something it won’t happen. It’s getting to the point where I feel like he won’t ever do the things I want him to do. I’ve brought all of this up to him countless times, and begged for things to change, with no outcome.
I guess I’m just tired of feeling like he’s not doing enough for me some days. Some days it’s perfect, but I have to draw a map and write down a todo list of just how to do the bare minimum. He won’t do it unless I plan and map everything out.
How do I overcome this. Can I overcome this.
TIA.