For context I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now, and we’ve been living together for almost a year.
There have been several incidents in our relationship where he has lied to my face about things, the most recent being last week, and I don’t feel like I can trust him.
He also has some anger problems where the slightest inconvenience will make him in a mad mood for the whole day and he’ll treat me poorly because of it.
I’m not sure if I believe in soulmates, but I just don’t feel like he is my person, and when I try to explain this to him he cries and I just give up because I still love him I just don’t think I can give him what he wants.
I just feel like we have so many differences, like he wants kids, and I don’t is a big one.
There’s also our sex life. We were both each other’s firsts, but I feel like when we have sex he’s the only one being pleased. I’ve never had an orgasm or anything, and hes usually finished in less than five minutes and just goes about his day. Usually there isn’t any foreplay either.
Any advice anyone has would be helpful. I wanted this guy to be my person so badly but I just don’t see myself being happy with him in the long term.
Should I leave him or try to stick it out and see if things change?
TL:DR I think I should leave my boyfriend due to current issues in our relationship.