I (m34) have been dating my gf (f35) for almost 4 months.
Most people put "open communication" in their dating profiles, or mention it being an important part of a relationship, but I've found a very small amount of people actually know what it means. It's like a boilerplate phrase at this point.
Open Communication means that when an issue comes up, you discuss it instead of letting it fester under the surface. You don't let animosity build from a misunderstanding, whether it's big or small.
It does require mutual desire to be in a relationship, and to be with each other.
I've never been able to do it until this relationship, crazy because I'm in my mid-30's. It's not always comfortable, but after working things out I feel wave of relief wash over me and I feel closer to my partner.
Anyone else have any thoughts on this, and how it's so uncommon in the modern dating scene?