My (31M) wife (32F) of 9 years doesn’t care for receiving oral and it’s kind of killing me. One of my absolute favorite things about sex has always been giving oral and she’s always too self conscious. She’s afraid that I’ll dislike her smell or taste but I’ve stated over and over again that none of that bothers me.
I get to do it about once every two months and that’s depressing to type out haha. Even when I’m doing it she seems to be enjoying it only mildly. I know it’s not me because previous partners have loved it and I’ve tried different techniques on her with no response. I’ve tried talking to her about it a few times but the conversation fizzles out and doesn’t go anywhere.
Anyway, has anyone else overcome this or do I have to feel disappointed forever?