I have been friends with some people for 2 years now, and I used to trust them as good people. They sometimes need to talk in private about conversations between each others so they tell me to back off for a bit. I understand that there are stuff going on between them, so I give them their time. But every time I hangout with them again, they talk long conversations without wanting me being with them for 90% of the time. If I invaded their “private talks”then they would hate me for even getting close to them. This is starting to piss me off and it makes me overthink that they might be talking bad about me.
I know this is not a positive assumption here, but I can’t think of anything else as to explain the frequent chats they talk without me knowing.
What can I do to stop people doing this to me? Is this a sign they don’t want me? Should I actually leave them and find others to be with?