For me personally I'm going to event Brite and looking at fun things to do around the area. Been to couple of wine, and sangria tasting events, a few festivals, mixers. Going on speed dating too, and parties. Next month I'm going to my first yacht party it looks fun.
I know most people say to focus on your hobbies amd you will meet someone else but most of my hobbies are male dominant. Like reading manga, playing magic the gathering, board games, video games, cooking, and other things but I don't meet anyone. So I'm trying more things so I can leave the house.